Angelina Jolie and her view upon Sexual fantasies

Most of us have had the experience of beginning a sexual encounter, only to find our minds wandering off to the worries of the day or the pressing issues of tomorrow. Erotic fantasy can maintain arousal by pushing away the intrusive nonsexual thoughts. When distractions hit, we need only focus on a pleasant sexual memory or project an exciting visual image on our mental movie screen. Fantasies can be of our current sexual partner, but often they will revolve around persons from the past, coworkers, movie stars, or attractive strangers. Bringing others into fantasies is normal and is justified if it serves the current relationship by eliminating distractions that would otherwise dampen or destroy the passion. Obviously, if someone feels guilty about including others in his or her fantasy script, they should be left out. Some people like a cast of thousands, while others want to focus exclusively on their current partner.

Brad Pitt gives his ideas about Sexual Fantasies

More than one person has told me, "I'm not able to get excited on a moment's notice. I need time to psych myself up." To induce desire, you can think ahead about what you would like to experience and what you and your partner will give and receive. Imagine the sexual encounter is your very first, but without those initial anxieties, and let it be, in your mind, a new and exciting adventure. Recall the good sexual feelings you have experienced and mentally reminisce about those most memorable past encounters. Conjure up the memory of a partner's warmth, softness, and gentle touch. See your partner's face in your mind's eye and recall that person's sounds of pleasure and the aroma of their excitement. Include only the graphic images that you are comfortable with.

Desire can be induced mutually throughout the day, with, for example,a phone call to say, "I've been thinking of your wonderful body." The mid-day message, "You won't believe what I want to do to you tonight," might stir the erotic imagination of both partners, causing each to spend the day thinking of the possibilities in store for that night.

Natural phenomenon

Sexual fantasizing is a natural phenomenon similar to dreaming,we can learn by analyzing sexual fantasies as if they were dreams. I often compare fantasies to dreams. what we find at the heart of a troublesome fantasy is an unresolved emotional issue that has little or nothing to do with sex. Women's private thoughts are much more creative and original than I could have guessed. And what is interesting couples everywhere look for inspiration to keep their sex lives hot

What Jennifer Lopez thinks about sexual fantasies

Everybody is supposed to have sexual fantasies, and famous people are not exceptions. Jennifer Lopez ones said: “I think all sexual fantasies are healthy. Some of them will never be acted, but it's a pleasure just to give a little thought to it”. Some people say she is a complicated nature with rich sexual life, but that is what we will never know. We can just verify you that she dreams of spicy things too, as all of us do! There’s nothing wrong with that fantasy and there’s nothing wrong with doing it. “The female orgasm can seem like a highly elusive goal at times”-says Jennifer,- “I can achieve it just thinking and imagining”.

Don't be afraid of your fantasies

People vary considerably in their ability to fantasize and in their enjoyment of this behavior. Fantasies may supplant reality for some or may serve as a poor substitute of sexual reality for others. Males more often use sexually explicit material as a part of fantasy, whereas females are more likely to rely upon romance stories. Females are more likely to prefer erotica with a "softer," more imaginative side rather than the "harder," more explicit forms preferred by many males. The male fantasy world relies heavily upon novel experiences filled with culturally-defined beautiful women who are always sexually available and free. Women often base their fantasies upon previous sexual experiences and tend to emphasize romance and intimacy. Ant that is the main difference of men and women's psychology.
Here you are supposed to post your thoughts and discuss your sexual fantasies. Don't be afraid of anything, because fantasy is just a fantasy!

A nice quotation

I found out a nice quotation today, so I'm eager to introduce it here, at the blog's pages. David Morgan, consultant clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst at the Portman Clinic in London, says " "Relationships are difficult. Intimacy, having a good relationship, loving your children, involves work. Pornography is fantasy in the place of reality. But it is just that: fantasy".

Jealousy

Today i'd like to point one thing out saying that if your couple gets aware of any of your fantasies, (except those with their particioation), he or she may feel jealouse. And that is in fact the beginning of great problems for both of you. 
So that is why there is an advice: firstly respect your couple in order 
not to offend him and not make him jealouse. 

The other side of a sexual fantasy

On one hand fantasies can provoke guilt or fear. For example, a man who 'dreams' about making love to another man may fear he is a gay or wise versa, a wife who 'dreams' about sex with a stranger may feel she is betraying her husband. But on the other hand sexual fantasies may have a healthy effect. It may bring a vivid spirit into your sexual life and just imagine that sex you'll have with your couple after portion of sexual fantasies...

Men and women's sexual fantasies

Have you ever given any thought to the differences between the sexual fantasies of men and women? Men, as it seems, tend to have far more sexual fantasies than women and these are more likely to be paired with masturbation. Men, by nature being visual, are likely to create graphic images of women's sexual bodies and imagine watching them, seducing them or simply being seduced by these chicks. For a male, the story line of a fantasy is usually quite genital and accompanied with explicit visual images.

As for women, they also have vivid sexual fantasies based on their imagination. She may have been too ashamed to talk about them but it doesn't mean they don't have them. Although most women prefer to leave their fantasies at that, others have a list that they are slowly but surely accomplishing. There is another situation when woman seems to be wandering off in thought, who knows, she may be roaming around in the mystical world of sexual fantasy. Most women prefer to conceal their fantasies, though one should keep in mind that fantasies are a normal and healthy part of our sexuality. They are either taken from past experiences or may even be completely imaginary. Fantasies are rather different, that is why some of them are a kind of taboo, or socially unacceptable, therefore they are only available through fantasy. But as you'll figure out today, the modern woman marvels at sex and sexuality.